The more aware you are that you create your reality, the less it needs to fall apart to get your attention. How do you create your reality?
Every reaction, physical and emotional, has a consequence. It could be a positive experience, or you could be making it go exactly the way you don’t want it to go…
What is your intention? Where does your energy go?
When you wake up, nobody tells you to be happy. You consciously have to choose to wake up and be happy, or to be miserable, to love your day at work, or to hate it, to want to make it work with your partner, or to want to make it work only for yourself…
For example, I often hear ‘why is my relationship not satisfying me?’
Why? Because you already believe that you are not satisfied in your relationship.
I know, simple… But what that then goes on to create, is energy of intent to pursue what you believe will satisfy you.
You know the saying, be careful what you wish for?
If you are sending out energetic signals that you are not satisfied in your relationship, what do you think will be presented to you?
You would hope that your partner would pick up on the vibes you are trying to send and that they would do something about it, but they will not receive the message.
Do you know why?
Because your ‘intention’ is that the relationship cannot satisfy you, so that energy translates into ‘sending them the message would be useless, let’s just focus on satisfying you like you intended’… And that is generally the opposite of what we are trying to do. You end up pushing them away because you find your satisfaction elsewhere (other people, shopping, drinking, etc.), they withdraw because they don’t understand what is going on, you argue and disconnection happens because you are ‘two different people now’, you leave each other, and go on to find your new ‘intention’.
Let’s say, the approach was ‘how can we find new ways to feel satisfied in our relationship’… if there is commitment to sending this energy out instead, especially x2, what do you think will happen? You will create satisfaction within your relationships, all of them.
Why? Because now that energy of intent is manifesting into your desired outcome, and not just into how you are feeling at the time.
It is easy to get stuck in a pattern, and to believe that nothing can change. But I really want you to remember, that if you feel like that, it is only because you believe it to be real…